If you’re a parent of an autistic child, these research-based tips can help you encourage their social communication skills, while also connecting and having fun together.
Sometimes you may not be sure how to get an interaction started with your child, especially if they often play alone or have specific or unique interests. Including Your Child’s Interests is a strategy from the Hanen More Than Words® Program that can help you get a back-and-forth interaction going with your child.

Watch your child closely and notice what they’re doing. What exactly are they doing with the train or the track? What is it about that particular action that interests your child? Once you figure out your child’s interest, you’re ready to join in!

Join in by doing exactly what your child is doing, but with your own object. For example, if they’re pushing a train along one part of the track, grab another train and push it along another part of the track. When you do exactly what your child is doing, they might notice what you’re doing and start to interact with you.

Make an enthusiastic comment about what your child is doing and, when possible, point to the toy as you comment. If they’re adding more cars to their train to make it longer, point to it and say, “Wow. Now your train is so long!” By doing this, you’re saying words that match your child’s interests. Your child is more likely to learn about the words that relate to their ideas and actions.